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I am so sorry to hear that Gary no longer is among us. My deepest condolences to the family and friends, he was special. I guess t I recall his artistic abilities more than anything making my "Shecky the Safety Slug coffee mug and tee shirt (with certificate of authenticity) even more of a precious keepsake. His old BK friends will know what this means.
R.I.P. Gary.
~ - August 12, 2013
This may be coming somewhat late, but I was thinking of Gary today. I looked up his face book page and saw this opportunity. One of the last spots he has marked on his places he had visited was Arrowhead golf course here in Colorado. My son and I were with him there. We spent a couple of days playing golf with Gary when he came here to visit. We played Arrowhead and Red Hawk Ridge in those two days. We loved playing golf together and I loved having his camera there. My office has several pictures that he sent and yes, that he captioned for us. I think of him often and remember the good times we had. I met him in 1991 and worked with him until 2010. So sorry for your loss, he touched a lot of lives in a great way.
~ - February 19, 2013
Please accept our most heartfelt sympathies for your loss. Our thoughts are with you and your family during this difficult time.
~ - January 9, 2013
To Gary's family,
So sorry for your loss. I was lucky to get to know Gary for a short time while I was working at Relm. He was kind and happy. He will always be missed and loved by me.
~ - January 4, 2013
To Gary's family and friends -- I was deeply shocked and saddened to hear of Gary's passing. I had been trying to find him recently, and only by chance did I come across the obituary. I was Gary's friend for quite a few years in the 70's and 80's. I met Gary during his one and only semester at Emporia State, and he introduced this country boy to a new world in "the city". I spent many weekends at the Kessler home on Circle Drive, made many journeys to the city, and his family always made me feel welcomed. It was my second home, and he was the younger brother I never had. We exchanged a few e-mails after he moved to Florida, but time and our own growing families took it's toll. I hadn't spoken with Gary in several years, but I never stopped missing the laughter. He was a great friend, a proud father, and though he will be missed, he will always be remembered.
~ - December 26, 2012
I have know Gary for about 18 years. I think the most memorable time I ever spent with Gary was when we were all doing a training together in John Day, Oregon. We spent too many hours laughing at the karaoke singers and telling stories. Fun times. He will be missed at IWCE and all Relm functions. My heart goes out to his friends and family. So sorry for the loss.
~ - December 11, 2012
I only knew Gary a short time while working for RELM from 2000 to 2009 but it felt like a lifetime. He always had stories to tell and pictures to show. He was my go-to guy whenever I had questions. Playing a round of golf with Gary was an experience in itself, you even laughed at the bad shots.
One day I went into his office and noticed on his desk a little pill bottle with a tiny 3 leg stool inside. The label on the bottle said "Stool Sample". I just had my physical that month and started laughing cause I thought that would be a good joke for my doctor. Well, Gary gave it to me. So that little bottle brought some laughter to a doctor in Fort Worth Texas. He is using it now to spread laughter to all the patients that come to his office.
That's the type of guy Gary was to me.
~ - December 1, 2012
I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers to all of The Kessler Family.
Gary has been a close friend of mine for years. I met Gary through the phone calls back and forth between Florida and Kansas. I was his" Bendix Queen", then he moved here and it was even better to be around him every day. Gary taught me so much and loved to share. Always had something to say...with the nicest smile. We traveled together for years and I am going to cherish all of the memories of great times we shared. There is so much of Gary's memorabilia around us here at RELM.He will always be remembered and missed.
Family was everything to Gary.Alex and Emily your Dad was an awesome guy and such a great friend.I am going to miss him and he will be missed by many.
~ - November 29, 2012
Gary was not just a business partner, he was my friend. I knew I could count on his technical support for whatever the issue might be. Then we would talk about the good things in life. I will miss him and so will the Public Safety Radio community. My condolences to his family.
~ - November 27, 2012
My condolences to the family. Gary and I worked together at King Radio/BK. I am so sorry to hear about his death. He was a special person. He had so much talent. He was a good friend to have in my life. The stories he could tell and write. I remember Shecky the Slug Bug he developed to raise money for the Battered Women' home in Lawrence, his stories about his brothers were histerical. He will be missed.
~ - November 27, 2012
I worked, Drank, Went to Dinner, Lunch, played Darts, Talked about Alex and Emily with Gary. I know he LOVED them more than any words can ever express. We talked about Emily and her College days. We talked about their Dog, Sparky, the TV shows he liked and many, many more experiences, like the time he rented a car, a Dodge Charger and Gary learned what a HEMI is!
In the time we spend here living the lives we live, we meet many other humans and get to know a lot of them. Some of them become good aquitainces and if you are lucky, some become FRIENDS. Gary was my FRIEND. I always looked forward to seeing and talking with him.
I have not worked with Gary for the last 10 years but every year when he came to Las Vegas for the IWCE show, he called me and we would hook up for a drink or dinner, or just a talk. He enjoyed working with the Park Service Employees and wanted to visit every National Park. Gary, I will miss you more than I can say, and I will think of you often and smile, because you made me smile. Until we see each other again, and we will, you will be in my thought process often and ALWAYS in my heart.
I am LUCKY and HAPPY that I knew you and wish more humans could have met you as you would have made their lives better. From Earth to Heaven, here is a HUG and a SMILE from me and thank you for being you.
With Love and Tears, I remain your FRIEND, Lenny the bald guy with long hair! Thanks for describing me in such an accurate way. See ya later!
~ - November 25, 2012
Went to school with Gary.. Great Guy... My prayers are with you all!!
~ - November 25, 2012
Mrs. Kessler, Gary's Family, Brothers, Sisters,nieces,nephews: I am saddened to learn of Gary's passing. I always knew of Gary as a guy with a laugh/chuckle, smile. What better way is there to journey through life. May your lifetime of memories of Gary help you turn sorrow in to peace of mind, heart. May the Great Spirit wrap The blanket of Love, Compassion and Peace around your Family.
Dale Duncan
~ - November 23, 2012
My sincere condolences to the Kessler family and friends.
I know Gary will be missed a lot. About the most easy going guy I knew from work and always a smile and great person to work with. Always admired that. Sometimes friends move away and slip away from the radar because of distance and time but the good memories will always be there and never be forgotten. Peace be with you Gary.
~ - November 22, 2012
I am sorry to hear of Gary's passing. I have only fond memories of Gary and the Kessler family from my time in Paola. My deepest sympathy and love to you all.
~ - November 21, 2012
What an incredible loss. Gary had a great sense of humor, a zest for life, and a generous, giving heart. I am so sorry to hear he is gone. There is no doubt he loved his children more than life itself. ~Laura Kang, nee Key, PHS Class of 1977
~ - November 21, 2012
Dear Kessler clan, my heart and thoughts are with you all, Gary is taking quite a piece of us all with him. He is also leaving an indelible and recognizable mark of himself behind on us as well.
Gary really is something special, rare, and comfortable all at the same time. I hope you (His family) do know that you were his most prized possessions, especially Alex and Emily.
Gary, I love you and I'm going to miss you, but forever is not as long as it used to be... and you still owe me a fishing trip.
Lori Curran Weber
~ - November 21, 2012
To all of Gary's family.
May GOD grant each of you HIS grace during this very sad time.
daryl benedict
~ - November 21, 2012
Our thoughts are with you all today. Gary, we will miss you.
Love,
Angela & Chad
~ - November 21, 2012
Even though I haven't seen Gary since I have left King Radio I still remember spending time with him and everyone else. Oh what great times we used to have just sitting around talking and laughing.
Gary rest in peace you will be missed......
~ - November 21, 2012
Emily,
I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Kati Poppert
~ - November 20, 2012
I was so sorry to hear about Gary's passing. I send my love and deepest sympathy to all the Kessler Family
. Hold your sweet memories of Gary close to your heart.
~ - November 20, 2012
Gary was the rare individual who could make you feel better no matter what life might throw at you. He was enthusiastic and passionate, but never took himself too seriously. More than anything, he was very proud of his family. We will all miss his spirit, his unique wit, and his perspective of life.
~ - November 20, 2012
Mary, Michele and all--
Gary was much younger than me, but I do recall that smile. Infectious! I think the caring memories that fill his guestbook are a wonderful tribute to him and a testament to the impact he made on others' lives.
~ - November 20, 2012
So sorry for your loss.
~ - November 20, 2012
Gary was a special person and he will be missed by all who knew him. He was such an avid Chief's fan and he hated my Broncos. Last time I spoke with him he told me that he liked my Rockies because they made his Royals look good. I am thankful that I had the opportunity to count Gary as one of my friends and my heart goes out to his family.
~ - November 20, 2012
I will miss Gary and all his wonderful pictures. He and I shared the love of photography. He did so many wonderful things with his pictures and loved to share them. I am sure there are many people with one of his calendars or nature pictures somewhere around them. If you appreciate the pictures he took you will know Gary as I did. His eye for the beautiful nature around us helped us all see the country as he traveled. We will miss him. My prayers to his family and friends.
~ - November 20, 2012
I shall miss Gary on both a professional and personal level. I met him through his support of the BK radios, of which he did at a highest level. Gray was the "service after sales " for Relm and I know whenever I called him, he would help me or fine me someone to help. This shell be missed by all who Gary touched.
On a personal side Gary was fun and had a good sence of humor. He loved visiting the National Parks and make an efforts to do so whenever he could. He was taken from the world way to soon. My heart goes our to his family as he loved you all so well.
~ - November 20, 2012
Kessler Family,
I'm so sorry to hear of your loss. While I hadn't seen Gary in years, it sounds like he was just as easy-going and fun-loving as I remember him being when I knew him mostly just as Deanna's brother. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.
~ - November 20, 2012
To the Kessler Family,
My heart goes out to all of you and especially to Emily and Alex. I have known Gary for many years and worked with him at Relm. I will miss him.He brought so much happiness into our lives with his sense of humor. He can always make you smile even on a bad day just passing your way and seeing his smilling face.I'm grateful to have been a part of Gary's life. He was a good man and a very good friend to all of us.
~ - November 20, 2012
Gary was truly one of the Good Guys! His smile would light up the room with joy, laughter, and most importantly love! Our Deepest sympathies go out to the Kessler Family as He will be sorely missed by All.
~ - November 20, 2012
Deanna,
I am so sad to hear about Gary and my heart goes out to you and your family. I will always remember how he let us hang out with him in our high school years and what great times we shared! He had an amazing sense of humor and never complained about his "little sister" and her entourage! Seeing his picture made me smile because I can tell he hadn't changed a bit.
Hugs especially to you, Mary, Connie and Michele.
Thinking of you all...Sharon
~ - November 20, 2012
My deepest sympathy to the Kessler family. Gary was a great friend and a great human being. Rest in peace my friend and thank you for all the memories.
~ - November 20, 2012
Not only was Gary an employee and co-worker, but he was a good friend of mine. No matter what we were doing I knew it was going to be a good time. His calm nature and unprecedented wit really made him stand out. He was always a joy to be around. Many times he would say something funny that really caught you off guard. He was extremely clever and was always thinking outside of the box.
He will truly be missed and I will never forget him and for what a great person he was...
~ - November 20, 2012
My sincere condolences to Emily, Alex, and the rest of the Kessler family.
~ - November 20, 2012
Gary was the kind of fellow employee who would talk to you even if he didnt know you, a new hire. I enjoyed conversations we had at break, while catching a smoke over the years. Gary's personality & presence will be missed, but never forgotten with me or here at Relm.
~ - November 20, 2012
Linda's and my sincerest condolences to Gary's family, and his many friends. His wit, unique sense of humor and willingness to help in any situation will be missed by all. He was truly one of the "good guys".
~ - November 20, 2012
Our deepest condolences to the Kessler family.
The world has lost a unique individual. One that can never be replaced.
We will always remember Gary's smile, his sharp wit, his ability to bring laughter in any circumstance, his love of nature and the wilderness, and his dedication to his family and friends. He gave a part of himself to everyone who knew and loved him. He will be missed...
"Close friends are truly life's treasures. Sometimes they know us better than we know ourselves. With gentle honesty, they are there to guide and support us, to share our laughter and our tears. Their presence reminds us that we are never really alone."
- Vincent van Gogh -
~ - November 20, 2012
Goodbye little brother Gary. Thanks for all the good times and memories. You were a great golfing and fishing partner, fun to travel with, and always had great jokes. You will be missed at the family get-togethers and just sipping beer on the back porch, but you will always be remembered. See you on the other side.
~ - November 20, 2012
My sincere condolences to the Kessler family. Gary was a great guy, a proud father and grandfather. He always had new pictures to share whenever I saw him. He treated everyone with respect and without prejudice……one of his many qualities. Rest in peace bud!!!
~ - November 20, 2012
Dear Kessler family,
I am so sorry to hear of your loss. I went to college with Emily and have fond memories of Mr. Kessler visiting her. He was always joking and had a good heart--he and my dad got along famously! Emily and I said they had more fun hanging out with each other than visiting us. I simply remember thinking how lucky Emily was to have such a loving father. My dad sends his condolences as well and please know that you will be in my thoughts.
Love, Minda
~ - November 20, 2012
Gary, you will be missed. I can't remember a time when you were upset about something any longer than a short minute. Life is too short and I'm glad that my memories of you will always be ones of laughter and your amazing imagination. Everything you were a part of from the Ten Swinging D's, Shecky the Safety Slug and the artwork on my Night in the Gutter party announcements will always bring a smile to my face. May God bless you and your family.
~ - November 19, 2012
My condolences to Gary's family, Gary and I worked together at King Radio, We spent many hours in a car driving from Paola to the Ottawa facility and became close friends. I have lost track of many of the people I worked with over the years and I am sorry that I had not kept track of Gary. It's always a great loss to lose a friend, Gary, I will remember you in my prayers. Again my condolences.
~ - November 19, 2012
Gary was one of the happiest guys I ever knew. He was not just a good friend and co-worker but was also a person who taught us to be happy.
He always stood by his friends in all the difficult times and made sure that we never gave up.
Civilization is a place where men rise and fall. Yet Gary would rise every day and bring to life, cherished memories.
May God bless his soul and complete all his wishes.
~ - November 19, 2012
My sincerest condolences to the Kessler family.
Gary was a joy to be around. His humor and creativity could not be matched. He will be greatly missed.
~ - November 19, 2012
My condolences to Gary's family and friends. I am sad that I did not make the time to get with Gary since he returned to live in Kansas. Gary was truly one of a kind...there will never be another quite like him. He will be missed.
~ - November 19, 2012
Gary was a wonderful person! He could always make people laugh!
He lived with our family years ago....we felt like he was part of our family! We will miss you! May God hold you in the palm of His Hand!
~ - November 19, 2012
It's always hard to find the right words at a time like this, but to say Gary was a trusted colleague, more important a friend and the world is a sadder place without him.
God Bless
~ - November 19, 2012
Over the years, Gary and I crossed paths many times at various industry trade shows. He always wore a smile, had a good story to tell, and help if you needed it. We will miss you Gary.
My deepest condolences go out to all his family and many friends.
~ - November 19, 2012
Gary and I lived in the same neighborhood in Paola and spent countless hours playing together. Nearly all of my best memories of childhood involve Gary. He was always there, always a friend. Kick the can, basketball, that weird vibrating football game with pieces that always seemed to go around in circles, listening to music, slot cars, Stingray bikes, girls, parties, golfing and swimming at the Country Club, cruising the square, working together one summer at the Pizza Hut, the Peter Frampton concert at Arrowhead. What an incredibly great childhood I had because of Gary. I will miss you dearly but remember you so very fondly. Love, Bill.
~ - November 19, 2012
Gary had such a creative mind and what a great sense of humor! I remember lining my work area with his concoctions made from leftover resistors and capacitors and such. What a shock to hear of his much to early passing. I will always smile when I think of him. My thoughts and prayers go out to his family. Farewell Gary.
~ - November 19, 2012
Gary always kept my sister, Robin Reed and I laughing. He had a story about everything. His since of humor, as strange as it was at times, will be missed. RIP Gary and keep them laughing.
~ - November 19, 2012
A lot of people share in this sadness today. Our deepest condolences to the Kessler family. Gary was a fun person and threw the best Christmas parties as any King Radio, Allied Signal or Honeywell employee can tell you. Rest in peace my friend.
~ - November 19, 2012
Thank you Gary for being a wonderful friend and co-worker, I enjoyed every minute we spent together. We played 100’s of rounds of golf and drank far to many Miller Lites to even count but we all ways had a good time no matter how bad or how good we played it was about being with good friends. Gary was an avid Football fan he stuck with the Kansas City Chief through thick and thin. Gary all so enjoyed Fantasy Football were he won the Championship with his team named the Atomic Wedgies two years ago. Gary left this world far too early but he will never be forgotten. I will end this how one of Gary’s favorite comedians Bill Hicks would end his shows.
All Matter is Merely Energy Condensed to a Slow Vibration
We are All One Consciousness Experiencing Itself Subjectively
There’s no such thing as death
Life is only a dream
And we’re the imagination of ourselves
-Bill Hicks
~ - November 19, 2012
Gary was a great man. A nice, funny person who I shared some great memories on the golf course and watching sports. Gary will be very missed. My deepest condolences to his family and friends.
~ - November 19, 2012
I only knew Gary since August, He was a hard worker and loved to make people laugh and these two were inseparable. We will all miss you Gary! To his family and friends, you are in my prayers as you mourn the passing of your father, brother, grand-father, neighbor, lover, and friend. Now since this is Gary’s Obituary, I’m sure he would add something (…………………………) until we meet again, we’ll miss you “Gary” every day.
~ - November 19, 2012
Gary my friend, you will be missed. I'm very thankful that Phil and I had a chance to reconnect, and share a few stories, a few laughs, and a game or two of golf with Phil, since your return to Lawrence. All of your old Honeywell friends share a sadness today at the news of your passing...You were a friend to many, and you will be missed. My thoughts and prayers for the family.
Janice Watts and Phil Fredricks
~ - November 19, 2012
My heart goes out to the Kessler family.
Gary was a great guy, he always made me laugh. I have a lot of good memories at Relm with him and I will never forget them.
Rest is Peace Gary you will be missed by many.
~ - November 19, 2012
This was such a shock to hear this sad news. Mary and I used to work with Gary at Bendix King and Mary worked with him at Relm. He was always laughing and fun to be around, and told the greatest stories. Our condolences to the family.
~ - November 19, 2012
my sincere condolences to Gary's family from the bottom of my heart.He was a great person and a great friend.You will be in my prayers and may God give you comfort and strength to find peace and acceptance.
~ - November 19, 2012
My most sincere condolences for the entire Kessler family.
Gary was a great friend to me and countless people. He will be greatly missed. I am truely greatful to have been a part of his life!
Joey
~ - November 19, 2012
Michele.....always liked your brother Gary....He was always nice to me, even though I was a freshman and he was a senior. Life sometimes seems unfair and we wonder why God makes the choices he does, but life somehow, for us, must go on. I'll make sure that my brother, Marty, knows since he considered Gary a good friend in high school. I send my prayers to your family at this time and know that if there's anything we can do, all you have to do is ask. Love Cindy
~ - November 19, 2012
To the Kessler family,
Sorry to hear of Gary's death. We will be praying for your entire family to receive peace, comfort, understanding, and God's gracious love during this time.
~ - November 18, 2012
Though we haven't seen much of each other since high school, I always considered Gary to be one of my best friends - certainly one of my best childhood friends. He'll be missed. My condolences to his family and my prayers to our heavenly Father.
~ - November 18, 2012
My thoughts and prayers are with Gary's family. We will miss him.
~ - November 17, 2012
So sorry to hear of Gary's passing. My thoughts and prayers go out to his family. Gary graduated with me and the class of 1977. So happy we got to see him this summer for our 35th year class reunion. We will miss his bright smile forever.
~ - November 17, 2012
You were:
My best friend through high school.
Best Man at our wedding.
Godfather to our daughter, Erica.
But, as our lives changed to the inevitable "grown up chaos", we also lost touch with each other.
When you moved back to Lawrence, we were supposed to get together to see if we could terrorize Kansas like we used to. :)
I am SO sorry I let everything else take priority. We SHOULD have gotten together again.
GOD SPEED, BROTHER!
~ - November 17, 2012
